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Catholic Weddings in
Hawaii
Each year thousands of Catholic couples come from around the
world to exchange their marriage vows here in the beautiful
tropical South Pacific Islands of Hawaii. One of the most
beautiful places in the world to begin their lives together as
man and wife.
Catholic weddings are very beautiful, and each part of the
ceremonies hold a lot of symbolic meaning to the couples as well
as the wedding guests and family members witnessing the couple
exchanging their vows.
Catholic or Roman Catholic?
Many people mistakenly believe that "Catholic" refers
only to the
Roman Catholic Church, this is not true at all. The Roman Catholic
Church is just one of the many Catholic churches around the
world which include the Old Catholic Church,
American Catholic
Church, Independent Catholic Church, Ecumenical Catholic Church,
Coptic Catholic Church, Ethiopian Catholic
Church, Syriac Catholic Church,
Hungarian Greek Catholic Church, Apostolic Catholic Church,
Holy Catholic Church - Western Rite, and
over two dozen others. Each church is a part of the "Catholic Church". All
Catholic Churches are in apostolic succession, with their
apostolic lines tracing directly back to the original twelve
apostles and Jesus Christ himself.
At no time in history were all Catholic churches around the
world under the authority of the Bishop of Rome, or the "pope" as
the Roman Catholic Church calls him. The Bishops of Rome decided in
the 11th century that they should be the head of the Catholic Church
around the world
by claiming sole, supreme and absolute authority over the whole
Church. Up until this point, there was only ONE Church in the world,
ONE Catholic Church, with each area under the authority of a local
bishop, but when this decision was made by the Bishop's of Rome of
the 11th century, it caused a massive division in the church. The
Catholic Church then was divided into two churches. The Catholic
Church of the East ( Eastern Rite), and the Catholic Church of the
West ( Western Rite ).
Since that time many more divisions have occurred, many of which
have been caused by the various Bishops of Rome trying to claim more
and more power and authority around the world, and by the Bishops of
Rome changing the beliefs and teachings of the Catholic Church that
were handed down from Christ through the twelve apostles and early
Church fathers. The Roman Catholic Church ( Latin Rite) is the ONLY
Catholic Church in the world that recognizes the supreme authority
of the Bishop of Rome and blindly accepts anything that he says
without question.
The Ecumenical Catholic Church of America is an
autocephalous Catholic Jurisdiction under the authority of a
Patriarch, similar to other Orthodox
(meaning right
belief) and Catholic churches
around the world, and follows the apostolic orthodox Catholic traditions
and teachings passed down to the Catholic Church from the
apostles and early church fathers.
There
are many similarities between the Ecumenical Catholic Church of
America and the Roman Catholic Church because we are both Catholic
Churches, but there are also a lot of differences between the two.
We pray that one day, God will bring all of the Catholic churches
around the world back together once again into the One Holy Catholic
and Apostolic Church that Jesus Christ himself established.
The main difference in Catholic marriages between the Ecumenical
Catholic Church and the Roman Catholic Church is that the RCC in
the United States will not allow you to have your ceremony at
any place outside of the church building. The RCC does allow
weddings outside of the church building in other parts of the
world, but here in the United States, they rarely ever allow
this option unless there are dire reasons as to why the ceremony
can not be performed inside the church building. And before you
ask, No, wanting to have your ceremony at sunset on a beach is
NOT a good enough reason for the RCC to authorize it. Rarely, a
wedding will be authorized in a hospital, or nursing home, if
the patient can not be moved to the church building for the
ceremony, but that's about the only time it is authorized.
The Ecumenical Catholic Church does allow Catholic Marriage
ceremonies to be performed in other locations outside of the
church building, including outdoors on the beach in most cases. So yes, you
CAN have the Catholic Wedding Ceremony on a
beautiful Hawaiian beach at sunset like you have always dreamed
about!
Catholic marriage ceremonies performed outdoors or at any
location other than inside a church building will be the same
ceremony as if they were performed inside the church building.
With all the formality, symbolism, and beauty that the Catholic
Marriage Ceremony is known for, and in many cases, including mass.
Only the Ecumenical Catholic
Church, can provide a Catholic Marriage Ceremony at any location
other than a church building in the State of Hawaii.
I know what you are
probably asking yourself now, "if I have a Catholic wedding
ceremony on a beach or outside of the church building, will the
Roman Catholic Church recognize the wedding?"
Since the Roman
Catholic Church only recognizes marriages which take place within
the confines of the Roman Catholic Church building, the answer to
this is no, they will not recognize the wedding right away, but
there is a very simple way to have the Roman Catholic Church
recognize the marriage. After the wedding, all the couple have to do
is go back to their parish priest and let them know that they wish
for their marriage to be recognized by the Roman Catholic Church.
Depending on the
circumstances of the couple, they will have to adhere to the
conditions of the Roman Catholic Church to have their marriage
recognized, which may include pre-cana (marriage preparation)
course, annulments of previous marriages, etc. Once the impediments
have been taken care of, the priest will perform a ceremony with the
couple and their marriage will then be recognized by the Roman
Catholic Church. Also, both parties do NOT have to be Roman Catholic
before the Roman Catholic Church will recognize the marriage, but
one of them does have to be an active member of the Roman Catholic
Church.
As you can see,
it is very easy for you to have a Catholic wedding on a beach,
or almost anywhere else that you desire, and still have the marriage
recognized by the Roman Catholic Church, if that is important to
you.
We perform dozens of
Catholic weddings every year for Roman Catholic couples, as well as
Catholic couples from other Catholic churches around the world.
What if I want a Roman Catholic
Wedding?
If you prefer to have a Roman
Catholic Wedding Ceremony inside a Roman Catholic Church building
and you meet the requirements f the Roman Catholic Church,
we can still assist you in getting this set up. We need to start the
process at least 6 months in advance of the desired
wedding date because there is a lot of preparation that is required
before your wedding will be approved here in the Honolulu Diocese of
the Roman Catholic Church.
Contact
us and we can discuss your situation and explain your options.
Roman Catholic Marriage Guidelines of the Diocese of Honolulu
Requirements for Couples from Outside the Diocese
Requesting to Be Married in the Roman Catholic Diocese of Honolulu


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